Anybody that knows me.. knows, that I am NOT an advocate for teenage parenthood AT ALL! AND I DO NOT EVEN DEFEND THE ACTIONS OF MY FAMILY MEMBERS OR CLOSE FRIENDS.. IGNORANCE IS IGNORANCE! PERIOD!!!! I have 18 damn nieces and nephews biologically, and about 5 nieces and nephews from my closest friends... I'm 19.. my friends are the same age. I'm the only one in school, with a car, and my own apt... smh.
They actually have the nerve to be living with their parents and not even in a relationship with their babies daddies.. How trifling!! Do you really think I would've made a pact to end up like that?? HELL NAW!
So somebody please tell me: WHAT THE FUCK 17, 15 YEAR OLD CHILDREN thought they were gonna do with babies in high school?? HUh? can ANYBODY answer that question?? If that isn't the most TRIFLING thing I aint neva heard! And oh Lord, if I was the parents of them girls I would be kicking ass! A pact?? A mothafucking pregnancy pact?? Like seriously you have no other life goals? Your main frame of mind is a child at 15??? Lord be a vessel, and some common sense for them heffas!
As a 19 yr old female.. there is NOTHING in me that wants to have a child, even when I was younger, and lonely, and unloved I never wanted a baby to fill that void. Not even when my closest friends found themselves knocked up.. I was never envious, or anxious for that matter to trap a man by having his babies... I always said that when I had a child I was gonna be mentally, emotionally, and financially ready to have a baby. So it really hurts my heart to see such young girls looking at life as a game that you play. Not taking it seriously.. Planning a "family" on their parents income. And potentially ruining their childs future. They have nothing a offer a baby.. not even time, especially if they plan on finishing their high school education or they strive for a post secondary one.
And their parents??? I would be a lie if I said that I didn't think their parents should have made them get abortions. Those children would be a lot better off with the Good Lord then they would be with those immature and naive babies! This documentary was disgusting on so many levels! And I cannot believe that these so called children are supposed to be our future. I'm appalled and ashamed. I guess those little girls never knew how it felt to grow up alone and without, so why would they consider the futures of their children??? Tonight before I go to bed, I'm going to thank GOD for giving me good sense, and for loving me while I was learning to love myself....
Sounds like u have a good head on ya shoulders.Thats wassup.
ReplyDeleteAmen. The movie was in so many ways ridiculous. they were immature and didnt have things well planned. I wish it werent true..
ReplyDeleteI said all of the same things as i was watching that damn movie....What was really going on with those girls? nobody in the right mind would sit down and say hey we aint got shit else to do so lets get pregnant...smh...where the parents at? what were they doing while there teens were running around having sex with any and everyone to get pregnant.
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